Friday, January 20, 2012

Workin' It

As I've mentioned, Dominic has turned into quite a stinker. Therapy is becoming more of a challange and some days it seems to be a waste of $180 per visit. BUT, he'll get there! I started working a little harder on it at home. He's figured out how to still use his left hand despite being constrained by the brace and covered with a sock. So, I've learned the best way to force him to use his right hand is to tie his left arm to a chair with a scarf and bribe him with yogurt melts. It seems to be working so far!

He even figured out how to get out of this!





 We're also still working on standing. He's doing great and even takes several steps when I hold his hands. I'm not sure how long it will take, but this boy will walk!




Dominic's OT has been working with Dominic a little more on feeding because he seems to be having some issues. He appreas to have tounge weakness and has trouble moving food around in his mouth. This is why he has decided to stop eating anything that requires a lot chewing. She taught me some oral exercises to do with him but he may need some more help down the road.



Other than that, a pretty usual week for us. Monday we had surprisingly warm weather and enjoyed a nice winter family walk. Mike and I are looking forward to a date night tonight and tomorrow we are heading the East side to spend some time with friends. Should be a fun weekend!

Saturday, January 14, 2012

The Blind Side

Another busy week in the Dunlap house. Fortunately, I was lucky enough to have my sister come up and visit for a few days before she starts another gruelling semester of law school. It was so great to hang out with her and she was such a help with the boys.

Dominic had his usual OT with Early On on Monday and this time she brought out another OT to observe along with a vision consultant. I was informed for the first time that Dominic is not only peripherally blind in his right eye, but also his left. This was news to me and something I had not heard before. She said he would have a difficult time walking and going down steps. But that he would have an especially hard time reading. I didn't take it to heart since this woman had never met him and was no neurologist or opthomoalogist. Unfortunately, she was right. We saw Dominic's Opthomologist on Wednesday and she confirmed the same thing. He lost his peripheral vision in BOTH eyes on his right side. Needless to say I was a little upset that no one had ever mentioned this to me before. She said we had probably been told by the neurosurgeon and neurologist, but that when we were told that he would lose his peripheral vision on the right side, it was implied that it was the right side in both eyes, not just one. The optic nerve from each side of the brain splits and is responsbile for different areas of vision in each eye. So, removing an entire hemisphere will remove vision that that side was responsible for. So, basically he can see fine when he looks straight ahead but if he tries to look to his right without turning his head, he will be totally blind. So, that's great. His opthamologist did remind me that this was a down side to the surgery, but that it had to be done to stop the seizures. Fortunately he will not know any different and will learn to compensate. I guess even though I know he's a little delayed, I thought that someday he would catch up and live a normal life like anyone else. I feel terrible for knowingly doing this to him, but I guess what choice did we have? If we didn't stop the seizures, he could have easily ended up a vegetable. I suppose it's the lesser of the two evils.

You can see where the optic nerve splits.  The blue is what was removed thus leaving Dominic blind on the right side of both eyes.



Here is Dominic during Early On last week. He LOVES this monkey Linda brings. His right arm is getting stronger each day and he can now support himself solely on his right arm and play with his left.

On a good note, we found out he doesn't need glasses! The last appointment we had with the opthomologist she was leaning toward glasses. But after dilating his eyes and a three hour office visit, she decided his eyes were correcting themselves and glasses weren't needed.

Dominic pretty much dominated the treadmill this week at PT. He is becoming quite a feisty little guy. He's learning to hit and hearing the word "NO" a lot more from me. He also puts up quite a fight when Robin is stretching him during therapy. But with that he's getting stronger and more mobile. He got his AFO on Friday and it should give him a little more support when he's standing/walking.

Dominic's AFO. Short enough that he can move around but gives just enough ankle support

The man eating breakfast rockin' his new footwear

Mike was supposed to be gone this weekend but with all the snow, he's staying around here. Which is a good thing, since I was layed up on the couch all day yesterday with the flu. Dominic may be getting more of a 'tude, but at least he entertained himself in his jumparoo for two hours yesterday so I could nap while Mitchell was at school. I'm definitely looking forward to a low-key weekend at home with my boys :o)

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Very Happy Holidays

I haven't posted in awhile but I guess I haven't had a whole lot to say (which is a good thing) and we've been so busy with the holidays. We had a wonderful Christmas and New Years and were able to spend a lot of quality time with friends and family. I have some fun pics at the bottom! Now that we are officially done with 2011, we are hoping 2012 will be a much more relaxing, enjoyable, peaceful and healthier year. Mike and I both remember where we were a year ago - in the hospital starting ACTH treatment. So much has happened since then, I barely remember that time of our lives. We were in such a fog and just bogged down with worry, anxiety and fear. It's amazing to see what a different baby Dominic is now.

Speaking of the main man, he is doing great! He is always standing; assisted obviously. But when he's not standing he's rolling and spinning around trying to grab anything he can. He has gone from Dominic the baby to Dominic the toddler for sure (except he's not toddling yet). He's always grabbing and pulling at things, mostly my hair, earrings or glasses. You can tell he wants to move. When he's put into the crawling position, he rocks back and forth but isn't quite sure what to do. His PT and OT don't think he'll crawl but will go straight to walking. I can understand that. It takes a lot of effort from both legs and arms to crawl. But I am thinking he will do some sort of army, one-armed crawl. He doesn't like to sit still anymore.

He's been sort of a stinker lately. He's definitely starting to express himself, especially when he's not happy. We have been doing more constraint therapy at home and at OT and he does NOT like it. He just refuses to use his right hand/arm. He'll just sit there and stare at me while his OT attempts to get him to use it. We've realized he's getting smarter and knows that if he holds out long enough, we'll take the arm brace off. And he's right. So, now he's supposed to wear it 3 hours a day at home. He hates this but mostly because he can't suck is thumb. She said it's a tough age because he doesn't understand why we want him to use the right side when his left one works so much better. But we'll keep at it!

His AFO came in last week but it wasn't the one his PT wanted, so she sent it back and they ordered a new one which should be coming in this week. Tomorrow we see the nephrologist and they'll do some blood work to check on Dominic's kidney stones and how the Bicitra is working and make any necessary changes. We are on month three of the Klonopin wean, which means he's only taking half a dose one a day. So, in about a month and a half he'll be on only ONE seizure med. Ah-ma-zing is all I can say. Other than that, life is back to normal with Mitchell at school, Mike at work and me running Dominic from appointment to appointment.

Life is good. Life is normal. Life is happy. We are incredibly blessed to have made this much progress in the past year. Dominic is a little champ and endured so much always with smile on his face. Here's to a happy and healthy 2012!

Mamma and Bampa with most of their grandkids at the Dunlap Christmas party

Opening presents with Mamma and Bampa

The fam on Christmas Eve

Breakfast with Santa!

Trolley Ride!

My little reindeer

The boys on Christmas eve

Opening presents
Happy New Year's!

Such a little miracle :o)